A woman allegedly set on fire by her husband in Lokoja has asked that he be forgiven—even as police investigate the brutal domestic attack.
Mrs. Berida Irawo is recovering in hospital after her husband, Jacob Irawo, allegedly doused her with petrol and set her ablaze during a domestic dispute in Kogi State.
The incident happened on Friday, August 14, 2026, at Oworo Estate in Felele, Lokoja.
How the dispute reportedly escalated
According to preliminary police findings, the confrontation began after Berida burned some of her husband’s clothes without his permission. She reportedly believed he was no longer using them.
The disagreement then took a dangerous turn.
Jacob allegedly threatened his wife, obtained petrol from his motorcycle and used it to set her on fire.
The Kogi State Police Command subsequently arrested him over an alleged case of attempted culpable homicide.
Her response has surprised many
Despite the severity of the attack, Berida has reportedly asked people to forgive her husband.
Pastor John Esiga Abu said he learned of her request when he visited her at the hospital on Tuesday, August 18.
Abu also addressed claims circulating online about Jacob’s occupation. According to information he said he received from both families and the victim, Jacob is a teacher, not a pastor. He is reportedly a member of a church but does not hold the position of pastor.
Her condition
Abu said Berida was in stable condition when he visited her and could be discharged within a few days, depending on her recovery.
He also described Jacob’s behavior after the incident as concerning, saying his speech appeared disorganized and suggesting that a mental-health assessment should be considered.
According to Abu, Jacob later appeared to realize the seriousness of what had happened and asked what had happened to his wife.
What happens next?
Abu said he believes any consideration of forgiveness should come only after appropriate mental-health evaluation and rehabilitation. He also suggested that Berida remain separated from her husband for the time being.
That distinction matters.
Forgiveness does not erase the need for accountability or safety.
The police investigation and any subsequent legal process will determine the facts and appropriate consequences surrounding the attack.
For now, Berida remains focused on recovery. Her plea for forgiveness has added an unexpected and deeply human dimension to a case that began with a domestic disagreement and escalated into a potentially fatal act of violence.
The immediate priority is her safety, recovery and protection from further harm.